The female G-spot is legendary, but what about the male? It turns out there is one too. In this article we will tell you where it is and how to stimulate it correctly.
What is the male G-spot
Oh yeah, the male G-spot is real. This is not fiction and is not an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is what is more correctly called the P-spot. And for the majority of the general public, it is generally known as the prostate.
The prostate is located between the base of the penis and the rectum, a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that there are many nerve endings in the prostate, making it an ideal spot for maximum pleasure.
This, by the way, is confirmed by research: scientists have found that prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while penile orgasm - only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate to sexual play, a man can get an orgasm two (or even three) times stronger than usual.
How to prepare for a search
Many men are filled with prejudices associated with anal sex. Though prostate stimulation obviously can't change a heterosexual's orientation (and if it can, then he's not all that heterosexual). Therefore, if you want to search for the P point, you must first of all obtain the consent of your partner. Also, experts recommend telling in detail about what you plan to do so that he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus doesn't produce natural lubrication, it's important to make sure you have a water-based lubricant on hand (preferably tasteless and odorless, so you don't accidentally cause skin irritation). Also, be sure to file your nails to avoid damaging the delicate area, or at least use a glove as a barrier.
Pacing rules
So now you know where the P-spot is and your man doesn't mind trying. What's next? It can be difficult for beginners to decide on the right actions for themselves, so consider the following techniques:
- "come here" movement.By making movements with your index finger, as if you were asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently enough not to scare your partner, but at the same time actively enough to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then build up speed.
- Circles and swings.Circular and swinging movements also work well and their speed should also be gradually accelerated. Keep in mind that putting too much pressure on the prostate can cause the urge to go to the bathroom, so it's great for a man to empty his bladder before sex.
- Sex toys.If you don't want to go anywhere with your finger, but want to experiment, use massagers for anal games. With them, in the same way, you can vary the speed and type of vibrations, so that the partner does not lose anything, but also vice versa.
In conclusion, we recall once again that the parts of the body do not have a sexual orientation, so a couple can safely engage in anal sex in both directions. And we note separately that if in the process the partner says that he doesn't like it and needs to stop, you should listen to him. In the end, we are all different. You can try it the next time he's ready again, but for now, do something you always enjoy.